- Authoritative parents are demanding and responsive, controlling but not restrictive. This child-centered pattern includes high parental involvement, interest, and active participation in the child's life; open communication; trust and acceptance; encouragement of psychological autonomy; and awareness of where children are, with whom, and what they are doing.
- Authoritarian parents are demanding, but not responsive. They show little trust toward their children, and their way of engagement is strictly adult-centered. These parents often fear losing control, and they discourage open communication.
- Permissive parents are responsive, warm, accepting, and child-centered,but non-demanding. They lack parental control.
- Neglectful parents are neither responsive nor demanding. They do not support or encourage their child's self-regulation, and they often fail to monitor or supervise the child's behavior. They are uninvolved.
As parents, we should strive to guide our children in age-appropriate ways. Mistakes are normal, and we need to give the child alternative ways of learning and handling problems. The bottom line is that an authoritative style of raising kids leads to competent kids, and is fun and rewarding for both parents and children.
The following information was taken from the following article:
Ballantine, Jeanne "Raising competent kids: The authoritative parenting style". Childhood Education. FindArticles.com. 02 Aug, 2010.
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